Get used with your gear

At first, wearing a belt and dildo feels strange. It's a whole additional appendage you might never have had before. Bonding with your new part of the body takes some time. For a moment, I suggest wearing your belt and dildo alone. Wear them when you do non-sexual things in the home. With your dildo on, wash the dishes. With your dildo on, watch TV. Give yourself some time to get used to it and get a sense of how your body functions with the strap-on escorts London. The more relaxed you are on your own with it, the better it is to use it with a partner.

I also strongly recommend that you masturbate with the strap-on on. Masturbating your dildo, or playing with it while touching other parts of your body, can be very hot, and it certainly helps to build a connection to it.

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You may feel ready to start using it with your partner once you've gotten comfortable with your gear. Here, I suggest going slow again. For your latest purchases, let your partner see you. When you and your partner make out, wear your belt and dildo. Watching your partner jack off your dildo or giving it a blow job can also be extremely hot, if you're both comfortable with those things.
The most important piece of advice I can give you is to use a ridiculous amount of lube if you want to use your strap-on for penetration. Make sure your partner knows how to tell you to stop and add more lube if they need you. When it comes to lube, remember: never use like for like. You won't be able to use silicone lube for it if your dildo is silicone based. Using a water-based solution instead.
During sex, you may not have had to use thrusting movements before. If that is the case for you, at first, thrusting will feel supremely strange! You just don't have the muscles that build by thrusting. Many people go comically overboard trying to figure out how to thrust, but before you get the hang of it, I suggest trying to keep your motions more subtle. Ask him for a thrusting lesson if you have a male mate. Doggystyle is the posture of a beginners. it appears to be easier for newbies to thrust, since it does not require the same level of hip strength. Or you may want to try a missionary, where you can concentrate more on grinding your partner against him.
"If a female-bodied person penetrates you, you may get to play the surprisingly difficult game, "Where's the Hole? Use your fingers to find the vagina and then direct the dildo there until you start feeling like a confused girl desperately seeking to lose her virginity. When it comes to sex, contact is always important, and strap-on sex is no different on London escorts. Ask your partner to give you a lot of input about what makes them feel comfortable. Till you both get the hang of it, go nice and slow.