Over the years of practicing massage, I’ve observed that 90% of the Western men still don’t see any importance in the true magic and benefits of massage. Although I fully understand that this may be due to social conditioning and the impact of the euphemism for other nonrelated activities that the word ‘massage’ has unfortunately become, I’m always inspired to do my best to.......
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Dissatisfaction is one of those emotions that rears its head in our lives and that we generally consider undesirable. It may sometimes live in the background unspoken. Often it creeps up on us when life seems to be going along swimmingly. Declaring our dissatisfaction challenges us. We mute ourselves because we believe that admitting it means we aren’t successful or because we believe it will be interpreted as whining or blaming. We "should" be happy, and we interpret that dissatisfaction is the opposite of happiness (which, by the way, is one of the three things the U.S. Declaration of Independence singles out as aims—“life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness”). The problem denying dissatisfaction is that it persists.
A reframing of dissatisfaction can begin with asking what it is. We sometimes try to convince ourselves that we are not dissatisfied (denial), we distract ourselves with some form of excitement (shopping, television, food), or we simply blame our dissatisfaction on what we believe is the source (partner, job, money) and never face it. The emotion shows up, we assess it as “bad,” “wrong,” or “unimportant,” and never consider the possibility of listening to it. But what if we listened and considered that dissatisfaction (and every emotion) is there to inform us about our interactions with the world? What might dissatisfaction be trying to tell us?
It is trying to point to something important for you and something you believe could be improved. Perhaps there is a conversation missing. Maybe you need to make a request of someone. Maybe you have an offer not yet spoken. Maybe there is a declaration brewing. What would it take to change your relationship with dissatisfaction? If you currently hold dissatisfaction as a negative emotion, shifting to the belief that dissatisfaction could be a friendly helpful emotion would be a big step. Then you could get curious about what it is trying to teach or point you toward.
How do you get unstuck from dissatisfaction?
- Notice the sensations of dissatisfaction in my body, emotions or stories (thought).
- Name them dissatisfaction. Declare it. Claim it. Own it.
- Accept it.
- Answer the question: “What conditions, if they existed, would allow me to say I’m satisfied?”
- Make a plan to fulfill those conditions.
Here’s an example:
- I notice an unpleasant tightening of my stomach and resistance every time I think of asking for love making from my partner.
- I tell myself (or someone else) that I’m not satisfied living with this discomfort. There must be a better way.
- I accept it. I acknowledge that “this is how my life is.” I’m not going to continue “wishing” for something different or escaping from it.
- I decide that I want to have a better feeling associated with sex with my partner.
- Either alone or with help, I create a plan to achieve this.
Moving toward satisfaction does not guarantee we will arrive. What often happens is that as we approach what we had believed would satisfy us, we realize it is not the end of the journey. Sometimes we can make another choice, which is to live with dissatisfaction. Although a meal at a new restaurant or the price of a something you purchase may not completely meet your conditions of satisfaction, you may choose to accept it. This is something to consider in other areas of life.
How is this acceptance different from complacency or resignation? In acceptance you are open to the possibility that at some point it may be different. In resignation you're denying that possibility. In complacency you have not made or are unwilling to make the effort to achieve satisfaction.
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Once the everyday reality hits again after the festive rapture, January can turn into the month of the greatest depression - many men will fall into its claws and go surfing the net for perceived fix of pleasure...
If you're one of the prone men and don't wish to be caught in this this year, this international men's and coach invites you to take a leap of courage and consider using January much more productively...
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Investing in regular massage is immensely beneficial at any time of year, but especially in winter because
1. It makes you feel good, mobile, supple - while the winter cold tends to stiffen our bodies and shorten the muscles
2. It takes your aches away.
3. It increases your productivity.
4. It takes your stress away.
5. It makes you sleep better.
6. It makes you be nice to people.
7. It gives you something to look forward to.
8. It gets you into relaxing trance.
9. It's oh-so very pleasant!
10. It does much more...
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You know, having a massage doesn't have to be as straightforward as simple laying down and letting some gorgeous young woman rub her hands all over your naked body. Yes, it's a highly sensual experience, but did you know that you can actually have it your way?
We all have those various quirks and kinks that make us who we are, and here at Butterfly Touch Massage, we like to cater to as many of those kinks as we can. We're all about relaxing the client and making them feel absolutely free to express themselves. After all, the basic tenents of Tantra are about submitting to the more sensual side of yourself in an attempt to gain that coveted, spiritual, blissful state. We believe that you can achieve this much more easily if you can embrace and share what makes you happy.
Foot fetish massage and tantric massage
So who says you can't have a tantric massage combined with a foot fetish massage? Not us that's for sure. We welcome anyone who has a passion for foot fetish to also enjoy a wonderful tantric massage, or perhaps a body to body massage. You can imagine perhaps incorporating the two? When you get some of our professional quality Nuru gel involved, things could get very slippery and very kinky fast! The masseuses who work with us at Butterfly Touch Massage, all do these sort of things. They do them mainly because they like doing them to be perfectly honest; it's not always just about you believe it or not!
Foot fetish and soapy massage
Or why not combine one of our specialist foot worship sessions with a soapy, ritualistic style massage? You can imagine the spiritual and sensual experience you're likely to get from combining these two things, we're sure. All you have to do is make it known to us when you call, exactly the sort of thing you want to experience. We will be happy to suggest one or more of the girls if you like too; if you haven't already got your mind set on one that is!
More than one masseuse?
That's right, we said one or more girls. There are a number of talented masseuses at Butterfly Touch Massage that enjoy working together to provide some of the best four hands massages you're ever likely to get in London. And it isn't as though these girls are simply thrown together either. You will find that the girls who work with each other, genuinely enjoy the experience of being together, providing sensual massages to the truly appreciative gentlemen out there. And we know for a fact that you will indeed appreciate what these masseuses can do!
Take a look at the various massages now and give us a call…